“Don’t waste your potential, “University is the only way to succeed”, “You need a degree for a good job”.
These misleading messages are often heard by students when they are planning their future, but what if university or college isn’t the best choice for you? Each person is different, and each person must make choices based on their interests and strengths.
The truth is that trade school (in its many forms) can lead to fulfilling, well-paying careers, but it can be a challenge to convince parents who are fixed on the idea that university is the only path to success.
In this article, we’ll share tips on how to discuss trade school -- to become a mobile service technician or other related trade -- with your parents and convince them that it is the right choice for your future.
The first step in discussing your chosen career path is to understand your goals. Before you approach a conversation with your parents, it’s important to think about why you want to become a service technician, or join a similar trade, and how that will help your long-term goals. Having thought about these personal aspects before you discuss trades with your parents will help prepare you for the conversation and show that you are confident and serious about the decision.
Alongside personal reflection, it is also crucial to research the program you’re interested in attending before you begin discussing it with your parents. (For a list of trade schools in the US and Canada, visit the Resource Pages on this website.) A substantial understanding of the program will help you answer questions that might arise and will show responsibility for planning your future. Also, showing your parents you have done your research, will signal to them that you are making an informed decision.
Key information to note in your research is the admission requirements, length of the program, tuition costs, average salary, program layout (I.e., Is there a mix between in-class theory and a hands-on apprenticeship?), and success stories about people working in your industry of interest.
According to one study, parents’ perspective on trades were most impacted when they learned more about the benefits of pursuing trades instead of university. It is the default for parents to encourage university because they have been told a degree is required for success. However, once they learn about the job security, financial security, employment rates, and significant training that is involved with trades, they are often influenced to see how strong a career in trades can be.
One of many facts that can be shared about the benefits of trades is that people who choose technical education are more likely to be employed than people who choose an academic route such as university. Ask an service technician.
Remember when sharing these facts and discussing trades with your parents, listen to their perspective. Often a push towards university is based on the desire for you to have a fulfilling and successful life. If you listen to these concerns, you can respectfully address them and share how technical education is meaningful and is something that interests you. Your success isn’t defined by the education that you choose, rather it is based on your happiness and individual goals.